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Jul
19

“Am I Safe Here?”

Frightened person“Am I safe here?”

Think back; how many times have you asked yourself that question… today?

… in the past week?

… in the past month?

Can you even remember the last time you asked this question?

If you are a member of my demographic cohort, your answer is likely the same as mine.

My answer: I can’t honestly remember when I last showed up in a situation, looked around, and wondered about my personal safety.

Unless, of course, it was a situation where I voluntarily endangered myself… like scuba diving, rock climbing, or hang gliding… none of which I have done lately.

However, if you are a woman, or a dark-skinned person, or gay, or someone who wears any type of ethnic garb, your answer is very different.

Even though it is not yet noon, you have likely already asked this question one or more times.

It might have been in a neighborhood store, at the post office, on the bus, in your workplace, or just driving your car down the road.

You noticed the gaze of another person lingering on you a little longer than made you comfortable. You saw their eyes narrow slightly as they seemed to be sizing you up. They might have drawn a purse a little more closely to their body, shifted uneasily in their stance, or even crossed the street.

And you asked – as you have so many times before – “Am I safe here?”

Freedom from questions about personal safety is one of the hallmarks of privilege.

That’s just a fact.

But the question is: what will we do about it?

How can I, today, let people know they are safe around me?


2 Responses to ““Am I Safe Here?””


  1. July 18, 2019 at 3:46 pm

    There are so many passages of Scripture that tell us we ARE safe, we as believers in Jesus Christ should always KNOW that we’re safe. Emotions may tell us otherwise, but know that feelings can lie.
    (Courage is not the absence of fear, it’s doing what you know to do in SPITE of fear.)
    To answer your question, a smile can go a long way to help people feel safe with you – a kind, friendly smile, not a “creepy” one! 😉

  2. August 2, 2019 at 3:44 am

    So much to say here…so little time…


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