“… but wisdom is with the humble.”
Proverbs 11:2, NRSV
I learned something this past week.
I learned that Grand Island, Nebraska is actually a pretty cool place.
I learned this as a result of spending three days in Grand Island at the Annual Conference of the Great Plains United Methodist Church.
It was a “command performance” kind of thing… meaning that attendance for me was not optional. Fortunately my wife agreed to go along at the last minute.
And since I am persuaded that this kind of thing is good for the soul, I have a public confession to make: when I first heard about the location of Annual Conference, I was not all that excited about spending three days in the town of Grand Island, Nebraska.
In fact it is possible I even poked a little fun at the notion that the word “island” is part of the name of a town in the state of Nebraska. I may also be guilty of encouraging my friends to wear Hawaiian shirts for each day of the conference… as a celebration of “island life.”
But then we arrived in town. And drove around. And met people and saw sights.
And as a result… I learned! I learned that Grand Island is a wonderful, clean, vigorous, engaging city of 48,000 souls on the plains of south central Nebraska.
(I’m still not entirely sure where the “island” part of the name comes in though.)
In the process of learning these things about Grand Island, I learned another important lesson. I learned something about learning.
Here is what I learned: sometimes learning happens when a vacuum gets filled. For me, there was an empty place in my mind called “the location of Grand Island, Nebraska.” I filled that empty space by looking on a map and finding it… right there off of Interstate 80, about 90 miles straight west of Lincoln, NE.
That’s one kind of learning.
But I learned that there is also another kind!
On some occasions, an unlearning has to happen before new learning is possible. That is because knowledge that is askew or off-base has to be corrected, re-shaped, or removed altogether before it can be replaced by something a little more reflective of reality.
In my case, for example, I first had to unlearn (or “dump,” to be a little more scientific about it) my earlier perceptions about the kind of town Grand Island was before I could replace them with the truer, better, more informed picture.
In thinking about these two kinds of learning, I also discovered that people LOVE the first type (the vacuum-filling type), but are not at all fans of the second type (the one that begins with unlearning).
It may be because the second type of learning requires HUMILITY… the willingness to begin by saying, “You know what… I was wrong about that.”
This is not a sentence that comes easily to my lips. I like to feel as if I have a few things figured out at this fine, ripe age I’ve attained. Retracing and retracting are not actions I rush to embrace.
And yet…
… my sense is that the learning that begins with a humble retraction seems to settle in at a deeper place inside me. It feels somehow “heftier”… a little more like WISDOM or INSIGHT than just information.
That may be what the writer of Proverbs meant by saying that “wisdom is with the humble.”
So then where does that leave us?
It would be hard to argue with the conclusion that the world has rarely had a greater need for wisdom and insight than it has today. At the same time, the world seems to be facing a desperate shortage of humility – the key ingredient of wisdom.
Because after all… when you already have all the answers, why look further or deeper?
Fortunately we have the prophet Micah to remind us what is good. And so, in case you have forgotten what he said, here is that reminder once again: “He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8, NRSV.
To paraphrase the most interesting man in the world: Stay humble, my friend. Gain wisdom.
Abundant blessings;
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