When it first happened, I felt kind of righteous and empowered.
A little later, I began to be unsure.
Later still I just felt bad. And more than a little ashamed of myself.
You see, in my community here in Overland Park, Kansas we have leash laws. This means that when you have your dog out on a walk, you are legally obliged to have him or her on a leash.
It’s not a good idea. It’s not a suggestion.
It’s a LAW.
And happily enough, most people comply with the leash law.
But now and then there are a few folks we meet on the trail who don’t.
When I meet them, I try and speculate on their reasons for ignoring the leash law. I wonder to myself:
- “Maybe they are new to town and aren’t aware of the leash law.”
- “Maybe they have extraordinarily well-trained dogs who stay right by their master’s side, or else who come immediately when they are called.”
- “Maybe their last leash broke and they haven’t been able to afford to go get a new one yet.”
Normally the sight of an unleashed dog wouldn’t bother me. However, the last dog we had (dearly departed little Molly) was VERY aggressive toward other dogs when we were out for a walk. Molly would viciously growl and snap at them and tug on the leash as if to say, “Let me at ‘em! Let me at ‘em!”I worried that an unleashed dog might forget their careful obedience training and respond to her aggressiveness with similar aggression.
Because, you know, they are dogs… animals directly descended from wolves.
So there I was the other day, happily walking Rosie on the walking trail when what did I see but a lab/something or other mix walking up the trail toward us, unleashed. Trailing behind her was her master… holding a folded up leash in her hand.
I paused and had Rosie sit down next to me, warily regarding the other dog. It approached and began sniffing Rosie in a curious, “Hey, what are you all about anyway?” fashion.
As the owner approached I said, tersely, “Is that dog OK?” Meaning is it friendly.
She replied, “Oh yes… she’s fine.”
To which I responded, “You know there IS a leash law in this community.”
The woman seemed a little taken aback by my abruptness. She looked at me and said, “Yes… I know.”
Unsatisfied with her obvious lack of remorse, I pressed the attack. “Well, then maybe then you should try to OBEY IT!”
Bending down to clip the leash on her dog, she sighed tiredly, said, “Have a nice day,” and continued down the trail.
Like I said… my first feelings following that encounter were feelings of righteousness and empowerment. I mean, what the heck?! A law is a law, right? I’M following it… you should too!
But the further the event receded into the past, the worse I felt. Yes, of course, I stood on the side of legality in that situation. But what had I demonstrated to that person by the way I chose to handle the situation? Did I demonstrate kindness? Or compassion? Or anything even remotely Christ-like in the way I responded to her and her dog?
Being the pastoral type that I am, I immediately began flashing back to Paul’s words in Romans 7 and 8. I heard an updated version of his description of the life devoted to serving the LAW compared to the life devoted to serving the SPIRIT.
In those passages, I’m pretty sure Paul wasn’t talking about leash laws, but he might as well have been.
But then here is where I went from being mildly mopey about the whole thing to being ashamed and embarrassed; it was the point at which I asked myself, “OK, caped crusader… you seem to be more than willing to speak out loud and clear against the injustices of suburbanites ignoring leash laws. But tell me… are you just as willing to speak out against REAL social injustices? For example, injustices like systemic racism, or economic injustice, or sexism, or homophobia or hunger? Are you willing to risk consequences that might be more serious than a sullen scowl from a neighbor?”
I sincerely hope my answer to that question would be “YES.” And heck, maybe I am preparing myself to do exactly that.
But for now, I think I will pick a different path for our morning walk… making sure I ALWAYS have my dog on her leash.
Abundant blessings;
You could do that, or go the old path hoping to meet the lady you attacked (your word) to apologize and perhaps telling her the convolutions you went through getting to apology, and that you are a clergyman. It called witnessing.