I saw another one.

I saw it just this morning as Patrick (the dog) was taking me out for my morning walk.

There on the other side of the street was a pleasant-looking (judging by first impressions) young man wearing THAT T-shirt. 

You know the one I mean. If you’ve seen one, you’ve seen a hundred.

It’s the black T-shirt with large, white lettering that says, GOOD VIBES ONLY! Yes, including the cute little exclamation point.

Most of the time I treat this T-shirt message exactly the way I treat nearly every T-shirt message I encounter; as nothing more than a white noise backdrop to my mundane, meandering musings.

But today, for some inexplicable reason, my attention was arrested. 

I paused. I noticed. I pondered. 

And of course, I launched instantly into a personal “vibe check.” What kind of vibe was I giving at that moment? I mean, it was a beautiful morning with clear, blue skies… no part of my body ached any more than it usually does… Patrick was not chasing squirrels or pooping in a neighbor’s yard. Everything seemed to check out. 

But I couldn’t help but wonder; was I, in fact, giving off the requested “good vibes”? If so, were they detectable by the guy in the T-shirt? Was there any action I could take to amplify my good vibes so that I might win the coveted “thumbs up” gesture from T-shirt guy?

So many questions. So many totally superfluous, borderline ridiculous questions.

And so, before I take this next little turn in the road, let’s clarify one thing: I am ALL in favor of good vibes. I also support people who encourage me to vibe in a positive direction. Heck, I much prefer being around people who are cheery, upbeat, even perky instead of spending time with the Debbie Downers of the world. 

Don’t we all?

But what happens if my vibes – for whatever reason – are OFF? What if I have a cold? Or a sprained knee? What if I just heard some really bad news about a friend or family member? What if I have just about had it up to HERE with the sniping and snarling and political bickering I see on TV every day?

What will T-shirt guy do? How will he respond to the sour, mopey, depressed, or angry vibes I am giving off? Will he cross to the other side of the street? Or shake his head disapprovingly?

Of course, I am being facetious with this question. But there really is a semi-serious thought behind it, believe it or not. In all likelihood, you and I run into people every day who are not giving off particularly good vibes. 

For one of those reasons I listed above (or dozens of others), they are down. They are having a hard time coping. They feel sad, angry, frustrated, abandoned, annoyed, belittled, or ashamed…

… and then they turn the corner and bump into T-shirt guy telling them they really shouldn’t feel that way. How do you suppose that message makes them feel?

I can’t tell you this with absolute certainty, but I’d be willing to bet Jesus never wore a “Good Vibes Only!” T-shirt. Heck, I bet he didn’t even OWN one!

That’s because he knew people can emit a wide variety of vibes based on a wide variety of life circumstances. Being fully human as he was, Jesus knew that life sometimes sucked for people.

But instead of shaming or guilt-tripping them for it, he LOVED them for it. In fact, he spoke his own message of love directly to them when he said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28, NRSVUE). 

You know… since arriving back home after Patrick’s walk, my vibe has mostly been good today. Sure, there have been one or two irritations and setbacks, but nothing worth writing home about. 

And so, it gives me unending comfort to know that if my vibe ever does turn SERIOUSLY bad, I can turn to a compassionate savior instead of a nice, anonymous T-shirt guy for relief and understanding.

Abundant blessings;

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4 responses to “Vibe Check, Anyone?”

  1. Chandra Lynn Avatar

    Yep. I rank the “good vibes” only with that quote that says we should only hang around people who elevate us. Sounds good in theory, but unrealistic, a little selfish, and kind of petty.

  2. malcolmsmusingscom Avatar

    I’m still unsure, Russell. Was your T-shirt guy giving off or receiving good vibes? Was it a command, a request or a suggestion? And good vibes? Do they come in packs of 10? Can you switch them on or off. Are they caught or taught; nature or nurture? Do you say, ‘My vibes are level 7 today; much better than my level 5 yesterday. As for yours they’re off the scale!’
    I’m sorry Russell. I’m increasingly confused

    1. revruss1220 Avatar

      Me too, Malcolm.
      I took his shirt as a request. A request that anyone in the viewing vicinity of his shirt should please only give off “good vibes.” Whatever those are.

  3. K.L. Hale Avatar

    Russell, I always enjoy your writing! I have many friends who send me “good vibes”…uh,…thanks!?! Being facetious myself I’ll say, “sending you PRAYERS, good vibes, well wishes…whatever floats YOUR boat, lol”. But for me? I’ll ask my Savior, too! Vibe checks—oy vey, Russell. I’d like to think I’m a perceptive person. I struggle with moody people; but I get it. I can’t be Pollyanna all the time. As a matter of fact, I just returned from a trip to visit my youngest son and his family. People will tell me to “find my joy”. Yet, with this new journey I’m on, I stop everything to meet their “vibe” (Ha!). I spend so much time helping others cope with my cancer, that I sometimes can’t partake in the things that bring me the most joy (since I can’t be around my kids and grandkids all the time, I’ll take writing and reading). Like you, there are times my “vibes” are off. I RUN to Jesus! Admittedly, I’m glad people choose “good” vibes over the negative ones. But can you imagine how amazing our world would be if vibes could be thrown out the window for the promise and miracles provided by our Creator! Are Good Vibes meaning being positive? I have a friend who talks about people’s “energy”. I tell her that my emotions may not always be positive, but I don’t live by my emotions, I live by truth! The truth that exists only through Jesus! Thank you for always sharing such great thoughts that point back to the one truth that exists! I’m so glad we’re on this journey together! Many blessings and prayers to you and yours, Russell (NO good vibes needed!)

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