“I’m sorry. I forgot.”
If I had a shiny new quarter for every time I’ve uttered those words in my life, I would be a moderately well-off man.
And although I am getting up there in total birthdays, I can’t blame this forgetfulness on my age. I have suffered this affliction for a long time.
I don’t discriminate in my forgetting. It doesn’t matter whether it is a birthday, the last location of my car keys, the first name of someone I just met, the capital of Vermont, or what I had for lunch yesterday. Anything and everything is likely to slip through the holes of my sieve-like brain.
It is sad. It is often embarrassing. It is something I would love to do something about.
But you know what? I strongly suspect I am not the Lone Ranger in this.
In fact, the act of forgetting seems to be almost as central to the human condition as, say, walking upright or possessing opposable thumbs.
In the Old Testament section of the Bible, we regularly see God acting in miraculous, supernatural ways on behalf of the Israelites. But it only takes a minute after God turns the Nile River into blood, for the Israelites to go back to their old complaining, contentious ways. Over and over and over again, God has to tap them on the shoulder and say, “Remember? Remember back when you were slaves in Egypt and I came to your rescue? Remember that whole ‘parting the Red Sea’ thing? Yeah. That was me.”
Fast forward to the New Testament and we see Jesus breaking bread with the disciples just before his arrest and persecution, telling them, “Do this in remembrance of me.” (Luke 22:19, NRSV).
It is because of our unlimited capacity to forget that we need four candles to remind us that God’s incarnation in Jesus is about love, and joy, and peace, and faith. It is because of our Swiss Cheese brains that we need evergreen wreaths to remind us that God is eternal, with no beginning, middle or end. We give gifts to others at this time of year, yes, as a way of telling them how much they mean to us, but also as a way of remembering that God’s love is a pure, undiluted GIFT we’ve done nothing to earn.
For some, this season is a time of joy. For others, it is a time of stress and overwork. For others, it is a season of sorrow, bringing painful reminders of loved ones who are no longer with them.
I pray that whatever this time of year is for you, that it is first and foremost a time to remember the reckless extravagance of God’s love for this world and for YOU specifically.
Abundant blessings;
I can relate, Russ. There are things we need to remember, and there are, in fact, other things we would be better off forgetting. I pray every day that my mind would act accordingly. May we NEVER forget His incredible love for us.
AMEN!
Russell, what a beautiful and timely post. I’m in good company with “forgetting” ( it definitely does not discriminate). Remembering the love and promise from Christ is the hope and faith to which I cling. Sometimes I allow guilt to keep me from remembering the grace. I’m getting better as I get older. May we never forget the goodness of God! Blessings to you and yours each day!
Blessings to you, too, Karla. Let’s make a deal; I will help you remember the TRUE source of our hope if you help ME remember. OK?
It’s a deal, Russell!!! (I’m shaking your hand and Finley threw in a paw on the deal too 🐾)
Beautiful. I love the phrase reckless extravagance in describing God’s love for us. It made me smile so big.
Remembering is a human trait. You’re in good company.
Thank you! Peace ✌️
Such a wonder: The God of the universe loves us–loves ME– with reckless extravagance! I’m another who loves that descriptor, reckless extravagance. Thank you for affirming this amazing truth, Russell!
Thank you, Nancy. God’s blessings abound!
“Reckless extravagance of God’s love…” Beautiful. Annnnnd…guilty. If I don’t write it down, it is forgotten. I’ve learned to carry a notebook everywhere.